The wisest man who ever lived taught us that, “it is more blessed to give than to receive.” When was the last time you experienced being “more blessed” by giving rather than receiving? You may have heard from the pulpit on Sunday morning that if you are having a bad day, a bad week, or a bad year (financially, emotionally, health-wise, or otherwise), that you should stop and count your blessings because it’s good for the soul. Psychologists and self-help gurus will tell you that practicing thankfulness is good for your mental health. I think Jesus would agree, but if you want to absolutely destroy any negative feelings you may be experiencing - for whatever the reason may be - go find someone in need (a friend, family member, co-worker, or even better a stranger) and give them a small, unexpected, “I just want to help” gift of some kind.
I’m not talking about a birthday, anniversary, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Christmas or Valentine’s Day gift. I’m not even talking about giving (tithing) to your church on Sunday. Those “gifts” are “nice” but also pretty much expected. No, to receive the real blessing, and an almost overpowering rush of positive thoughts and emotions, you should help someone in need in a completely unexpected way. Make sure it’s a small gift so you won’t have any feelings of resentment or second thoughts…don’t make it about self-sacrifice. It is entirely impossible to be in a bad mood or live negatively in a moment of charity. That’s why giving is really a gift to ourselves.